Valentine’s Flower Etiquette: What to Send, When to Send It, and How to Get It Right

Valentine’s Day is that one day of the year when flowers suddenly carry a lot of meaning. One bouquet can say “I adore you,” while another quietly screams “we’re just friends".

Knowing the right flowers to send is a vital part of gifting flowers.

If you’ve ever wondered what flowers to send, when to send them, and how to avoid Valentine’s Day mishaps, grab a popcorn and a seat 😁.

1. When To Send Them:

When it's delivered matters. Morning delivery on Valentine’s Day? Perfect!.

Afternoon? Still safe. But 8pm deliveries? Unless it's part of a surprise dinner date, it's not ideal.

If it's a long-distance relationship or you're planning to beat the Valentine rush, sending flowers earlier on February 12th or 13th works too. Pre-ordered flowers are always preferred by flower vendors like us at SYFlowers&Hampers and you get great discounts too! As long as you don't vanish after sending them. 🌝

Flowers aren’t the kind of gift that makes you forget you exist.

Tip:

Don’t make it a public delivery unless you’re sure.

Office deliveries can be romantic or uncomfortable depending on the receiver.

You might want to confirm they will enjoy the attention and won’t put them on the spot first. When in doubt, private delivery is safer.

2. What Flowers Should You Send?

Not all flowers say the same thing. On Valentine's Day, symbolism matters more than people admit.

Flowers might seem like a predictable valentine's gift but they often carry more meaning on a day built around love and affection; the type of flowers you send, the timing of the delivery, and the way they are presented can communicate far more than words.

Red Roses: The Star of SYflowers!

6 out of 10 times when a customer orders a bouquet via SYFlowers&Hampers: it's a red rose flower and oh, how much it gladdens our heart 🤭.

Red roses are the universal symbol of romantic love, which is why they are the most popular choice for Valentine’s Day.

They are best given to someone you share a romantic relationship with, such as a spouse, partner (boyfriend, girlfriend, or fiancé(e)). Sending red roses communicates strong emotions like love, passion, and commitment. Because of this meaning, they are generally not appropriate for friends, family members, or colleagues, as the gesture can be misunderstood. When the intention is not romantic, other rose colours are usually a better and more suitable choice.

Pink Roses: Sweet, Thoughtful, and Safe

Pink roses are for the talking-stage couple, for when you want to say "I like you" without pressure. They're perfect for expressing admiration or affection, as they’re romantic but not overwhelming.

They’re a lovely choice for friends, close relatives, or anyone you want to appreciate in a warm, thoughtful way. If red feels too loud, pink is often just right.

Yellow Flowers: (Friend Zone 😃)

Yellow flowers, such as yellow roses, represent friendship, joy, and warmth. They’re great for close friends, colleagues, or someone you appreciate but aren’t romantically involved with.

It is important to note that this isn't ideal to send to a romantic partner unless you’ve both agreed flowers don’t mean much.

Mixed Bouquets:

When you want flexibility or are in doubt, a mixed bouquet is a safe and thoughtful option. The perfect bouquet for when you’re unsure of their preferences, you want something cheerful and balanced, you want elegance without intense symbolism

3. How Should You Send Flowers?

The how matters just as much as the flowers themselves. There are certain must-dos to consider before sending out a flower.

Always Add a Note:

A heartfelt sentence, an inside joke, a sweet reminder of why they matter. Even one line can make all the difference. A bouquet without a note can feel unfinished.

Pair Flowers With Something Small:

Flowers are beautiful, but pairing them with something else, such as chocolates, wine, a small gift, etc., makes the gesture feel more complete and intentional.

Valentine’s flowers aren’t about how expensive the bouquet is. They’re about intention, timing, and thoughtfulness. Whether you go bold with red roses, sweet with pink tulips, or cheerful with yellow sunflowers, remember: flowers are like words; they touch the heart best when they’re honest, timely, and full of heart.

And honestly? That’s what Valentine’s Day is really about.

Need a bouquet to be delivered to your special someone this Valentine's? Order from SYFlowers&Hampers and get FREE DELIVERY within Lagos and Abuja. Consultation is also free! 😁.