Weddings are a joyous celebration of love and commitment, and it's customary to show your support with a thoughtful gift. To be fair, deciding how much to spend on a wedding gift after spending so much on asoebi, transport, accommodation and other miscellaneous makes one question it's necessity in the first place.
This brings us to the question: What's the ideal amount to spend on a wedding gift?
To be honest, there's no one-size-fits-all answer. There's quite a number of factors that come into play when deciding just how much is good enough to spend on a wedding gift?
Here are some of the factors to consider.
Your Relationship with the Couple:
You've know the bride/ groom since childhood, of course you'll most likely want to splurge a little.
The closer you are to the couple, the more you might be inclined to spend. A close friend or family member might contribute more than a distant acquaintance.
Your Financial Situation:
I get it, Amaka went above and beyond on your special day. She showered you with gifts and even sent some cash afterwards. It's only natural that you'll want to reciprocate but don't know how to given your current financial position.
Be honest about your own budget and spending limits. As much as you'll love to give the couple the best of gifts , It's better to give a smaller, heartfelt gift than to feel pressured to overspend.
Fun fact, the couple is just really happy you were a part of their special day.
The Wedding Budget:
Let's be honest, we're Nigerians and we love to leave an impression. While it's not always public knowledge, a lavish wedding usually suggests a higher gift expectation.
Imagine for a second; you were invited to the president's daughter or a celebrity's wedding. How much would you be willing to spend on a gift?
A more modest ceremony might imply a more casual approach to gift giving.
The Couple's Wishlist:
When a couple creates a gift registry for their wedding, they help ease the stress that comes with deciding what to give and how much would be ideal to spend on said gift. Gift registries usually contains gift items of different price points . This way, regardless of your budget, there's always something you can purchase and when that fails, the cash gift section of the registry comes to the rescue.
Beyond the price tag, what do I give to a couple that'll leave a lasting impression regardless of the price.
Personalized Gifts: A thoughtful, personalized gift, even if it's smaller in value, would always be your best bet. Such gifts tells the receiver how much thought you've put into getting them something so meaningful to them.
Don't Forget the Cash Gift: Cash gifts are always a safe bet, especially in Nigeria, as they allow the couple to purchase exactly what they need or save for their future.
Experience Gifts: From all expense-paid trips to Spa dates, You really can do no wrong with experience gifts.
Also, leaving thoughtful messages/ prayers/ well wishes with a physical card provided at reception or a guestbook in a gift registry like ours @SincerelyyoursNG, if you really can’t splurge on a gift counts too😌.
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Remember, the most important thing is to give a gift that comes from the heart. Your love and support is the best gift you can give to anyone.
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